☆Effendy Karto☆ posted:

"It is the individual who is not interested in his or her fellow people who has the greatest difficulties in life and provides the greatest injury to others. It is from among such individuals that all human failures spring. There are people who can rekindle that spirit, who can light the fire inside. The question I have to ask myself, though, is whether I'm open enough to allow them to ignite that spark, or am I keeping them at arm's length to "protect" myself, thus never allowing the flame to be lit?" Alfred Adler