It is so easy to fall victim to self-pitying when struggling through major obstacle in life. However, doing so is merely destruction from the where the focus really should be. Wondering "why me" in the midst of some misfortune is a natural response, but it is merely a destruction which serves no purpose. These are the times we should place our complete trust to ALMIGHTY GOD having faith in HIS mercy and ability to successfully bring us through the darkest of times.