We don't define our own happiness for it is something given and desired for us by Him. The only thing that hinders us from seeing that true happiness is our selfish desires. Let's let His will do the thing and we will all be happy.

your right.. absolutely i agree.. but sometimes, its so hard to let go the things that makes you sad because it was also the things that made you happy...its inevitable not to think of those sad things and make your heart cry...well, that's life i guess... to endure the things that makes you sad and eventually with God's grace you'll find your happiness, in due time...

nice one :)

YES i get u and wish i can let GO of my past which is the most thing i find it difficult to let go.................!

I KNOW ABOUT THIS, THIS IS WHAT MAKES RELATIONS NOT TO LAST MORE OVER ON MARRIAGES, ITS WELL PUT

Prince GGG commented:

Very right....thanks Rose...I totally believe in this and m following this....its the key to happiness....everybody should try this

spyrose ƸӜƷ commented:

In order to be completely happy we have to be able to completely let go of the things that we know will never be again. We have to let go of our pasts, and the memories that bring us down. Looking back will only hold us back from progressing forward, and while it is ok to be thankful for the memories that make us smile, if they are attached to someone that brings us a lot of pain when we remember them then maybe we should try to limit those memories from arising as much.

Staying away from these memories takes a lot of effort and mind control of our thoughts. Try to occupy your time with a hobby or a passion of yours that makes you think of things other than the pain that one person may have brought you. It will take a concerted effort and usually a lot of time, but with a strong will and a strong mind getting over your past will free you forever.